It’s hard for a person like me to choose what to learn when there is so much knowledge
There are moments when I am certain of something. The next moment I forget all the reasoning. I ponder my next move, iffy. What shall be done? What is the most practical way to resolve this? A solution comes to mind, not very feasible right now, but also needed. What about something that’s effective but is impractical? Where do my priorities lie? What do I choose? I am on crossroads, I can’t get everything. I fear leaving stuff like this. I want to know everything. I want to experience. Choosing takes away the potential experience. I wonder how I’ll manage.
Song of the day!!
Do It Like A Girl by Morgan St. Jean. Intense beats, calm and bold vocals for all the ladies out there.
I see a lot of people online recommending great websites for shopping or learning something. I look up the ones I feel are legit. After browsing through the website for some time, when I decide to sign up, I discover that the service isn’t available in my country. At times it is clearly stated “enter a valid US zipcode.”
This has wasted my time more than I am proud of. I request all those people who make such videos to please look up where the website they are promoting offers their services. Because it genuinely takes a lot of patience to thrift through web pages and if you don’t get anything at the end then it is just sad. Both my time and energy are wasted.
If you are writing a blog post recommending websites, write where it is available first. Those who do always get my blessings because it saves my brain from working unnecessarily. If you are making a video, then 5-10 seconds won’t bankrupt your account.
Half of the time, these people are just giving paid promotions and actually doing this will cause them loss. But those who are giving recommendations out of goodwill, please consider this factor too.
Song of the day!!
Hide by Juice Wrld ft. Seezyn. A comforting track with groovy rhythm.
Can we just talk about people thinking of children as their solution to relationship problems? I have encountered so many people who had their child only to improve their marital life. They didn’t want to have a child in the first place, but they did so hoping it will solve everything. Can I know what logic you guys use? Like seriously how can a crying baby help your relationships?
And let’s not forget about the weird-ass grandparents who forget everything if their kids have a child? Just like parents, there are grandparents who will forget all of the wrongdoings of their kid because of the fact that they are gonna be grandparents. Then all morals, values, right and wrong vanishes. Why? WHY!? Suddenly everything is right. In such times, don’t the parents feel disrespected? Like the oldies didn’t give a fuck about you earlier, and now suddenly they want you back just because you have a kid. Logic where!?
Please stop having kids to resolve problems. You will only ruin the child’s life if you aren’t stable. So don’t follow what those nosy aunts say about the joy of having kids. Kids will torture you, which may cause you to indulge in more arguments. So please don’t have kids as a “last resort” to your problems. That baby will have to live through hell, sooner or later.
Song of the day!!
Gangsta’s Paradise by Coolio ft. L.V. A classic hip-hop track which needs to be revived. The raps are smoothly sung.
For all the emotional souls who struggle in laying their thoughts in front of others.
You may have a lot to say and you may be completely right, but you can’t lay down your thoughts properly resulting in no on listening to you. Let me give you an advice. Focus your energy in the right direction.
See, the world is impatient as hell. No one’s gonna take you seriously if you keep on whining and crying about how something made you feel bad. You gotta be crisp and firm. Have a talk with yourself first before saying anything to anyone. Identify your thoughts and feelings and make a plan of action. No one’s gonna take you seriously if you are all over the place. You need to learn to control your emotions and focus on what you want, not what is happening outside. Sit down alone and breather. Breathe and think. Think and organise. Organise and deduce a solution.
You can even write them down if that helps. But crying all the time really ain’t going to get you anywhere.
Song of the day!!
Running Up That Hill by Kate Bush. Love how the free, rough vocals go with the poppy music to create a soft melody. Its production has such advanced elements, I am surprised it was launched a decade ago.
The stage is never only a teenage phase. Anyone can have it. And anyone can deal with it well.
When we hear those songs about destroying someone who wronged us, and find them relatable, are we reflecting our anger or our we setting negativity in ourselves deliberately? Ever wondered?
When we are heartbroken, we drown ourselves in so much self-pity that we find everything relatable that mentions something similar to our situation. We hear “you broke me” and we think the song is comepletely about us. The singer will say “Now I am heartless, or petty, or depressed, or evil” and we grip onto the lyrics so hard we think we should be like that. And then we change ourselves to become that. All while being completely unaware of it.
Think from a spiritual perspective. Is channeling our energy in anger and pettiness really wise if we’re not moving on? No matter what the other person has done, you have the ability to monitor your thoughts. I’m not saying that you shall not feel angry or sad or want to break their window. But is it worth it if these feelings are causing you even more harm than what that other person did? The other person only wounded you, you’re the one chopping your legs off.
So what do we do now?
How about acknowledging our feelings and trying to move on simultaeneously? Break their window, but repair your house as well. If you’re only focusing on the anger and not channeling it into improving yourself, then what are you getting from that anger? The singers are only singing the lyrics. And their music is hit because they are channeling their anger in productivity. I’m not asking you to not listen to such music. I am asking you to be aware of your own feelings and think.
Song of the day!!
I hope ur miserable until ur dead by Nessa Barrett. I like the music and the vocals for this one.
What if everyone randomly stopped valuing money? Money has so much value because WE value it. If we don’t give money that much value then the rates will come down, just like how parents give silent treatment to get their child in senses. If all the rates go down then no one would be in loss. The product’s value would be less, it’s transport charges would be less, the raw materials would cost less. The current 1 INR would equal to 2 INR. Inflation will turn into deflation. Problem solved.
Song of the day!!
Chaotic by Tate McRae. Thoughts of anyone going through changes. The soft theme make this song immensely comforting.
To everyone who want to be like others- You don’t need to!!
As much as I love myself, as much as I tell myself that I am amazing, I still feel down at times. My voice tells me I’ll never be good enough and I’ll never be as pretty as others. I try to comfort myself by telling myself the opposite. But sometimes it just doesn’t help and all I want to do is just succumb and cry in the corner again. I feel so heavy I think dying is easier. I challenge myself to motivate me but at times nothing matters…I just want to hide away forever.
“I am not beautiful like them”, “I will never be good enough”, “I can never be like those amazing people I see on stage”, “I can never be good at anything”,- one thought leads to another and soon I am just sitting there praying for this all to end. It’s not just about my appearance anymore, it’s about the whole me- as a person. I pray for some miracle to happen that will either uplift me or kill me. It’s tough to live. But alas, nothing happens.
So I ponder over me and my life. My favorite hobby. Even though I don’t know what will happen next, I know I will be okay. I know I will survive just like how I have till now. I won’t let this go to waste now that I’ve come this far. I just take deep breathes, don’t think about anything and calm myself. Even though I am not okay at this moment, I will be later. It’s okay.
One thing I want to tell every person in this world is that Don’t force yourself! It’s okay to not feel like yourself at times and it’s okay to take time to recollect yourself. You can cry, the tears will eventually dry. You can feel down, you will eventually lift yourself. You can feel different, because you are. You don’t need to be like them, don’t be scared to be a change. It’s okay! It’s alright! And Love Yourself!!
Song of the day…
Good Enough by Carlie Hanson. A song about the feelings of a person who is not good enough in their eyes. This song is produced very well. The vocals are amazing. I relate to this song a lot. I really like it. It’s a good choice to practice singing.
Human-snakes: good skills, low iq. Stay cautious. A guide.
Some people have this audacity to fuck with you and expect you to behave properly with them. They would try to tick you off and if you don’t fall in their trap they try other dirty methods. They try to be sneaky but no matter what, such people always drop certain clues. Unexpected reactions, sudden mood shifts, guilt tripping, bitching are some of the most clear signs.
Such people can be very sneaky but very stupid too. They are clever but at time they don’t use their skills where required. You have to see in which position both you and they stand before determining any action.
There are many moments where we ourselves want to take revenge on a person or show them where they stand. Happens with me too. But making all the plans of humiliating them and actually doing so are two different things. One has to keep a lot of things in mind and sometimes the situation gets quite unpredictable when engaging in such conversations. It’s not some story where you will always win, it’s real life baby. Don’t get excited and do something dumber, instead think carefully to avoid getting in the traps.
No matter how many confrontation and revenge plans I make, at the end, I always ask myself, how would this benefit me in the long run? And that helps me a lot in getting my answer. Sometimes I straight up end their game, sometimes I just sit back and enjoy the show they are playing and sometimes I have to play real life chess.
Snakes are everywhere, each with different kinds of attacks and poison. Learn to be sneaky with the sneaky, the more incidents and expreriences, the better.
Thise was my opinion and way of dealing with people. I’m sure everyone has their own. Feel free to share your views. Now, queue the song of the day!!
End by EMM. Equipped with angst, its has powerful beats, music and vocals. Listen to this when you need to remove something toxic from your life.
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