Can we ban certain behavior tendencies?

Sometimes I really wonder what people think when they try to show-off authority given to them by themselves. What is it in people that makes them think they are important enough to be obeyed to? I see some folks giving orders like they can change everything at the 11th hour and have no sense of understanding for anyone else involved. They want things to be perfect, but don’t want to work for it before, and then try to make everyone else feel bad for not being prepared enough. This is quite irritating honestly. I mean, what are you going to do with angled pictures of the final project at midnight before the submission? Re-do it? Just sleep man. I get some people can get tensed and want to know things in detail to ease their mind, but they should be prepared beforehand to not become the reason of chaos for someone else.

For example, if I know I can’t work much later, I give it my all beforehand, so that if I am somewhat unavailable later, others aren’t pressured because of me. I see many other people who do the same. There are also those who, if not prepared, don’t create panic for others. They admit they should have done it before and may ask for slight help, but stay humble and don’t cause problems for others. Sometimes people get genuinely stuck, it doesn’t happen all the time though. And honestly, while no one wants any laid back team player, the latter kind of people are always preferred more than the former, because no one wants to be disturbed all the time, especially by people who are irresponsible.


Song of the day!!

Achilles Come Down by Gang of Youths. I have heard this so many times and every time it feels like an enchanting, royal melody meant to be a secret for the chosen ones.

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Working alone despite having a team

Okay I am done. Why is it that whenever I am in a team, I get the least cooperative teammates? Everytime it is me who is the most active and coordinating with everyone. Other teams have all proactive members. Why does it always have to be me who is stuck like this? At this point I am usually prepared. I somehow get a hunch in the beginning itself as to how it’s gonna be, it’s called paranoia but anyways. It’s a blessing because at the end I am working alone, as I like. But also problematic as I have all the load and then I have to share credits. Now I make sure to highlight how I did the job alone. You may call me a snitch but standing up for myself and demanding what I deserve is my fucking right and I am gonna claim it!


Song of the day!!

Anti-Hero by taylor Swift. Life summed up in poppy melodies,

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